Guidelines
So now that I have established my lifestyle choice I think making some guidelines would be a good idea. Yes there is the princess code (located in the upper left hand corner of my blog for those interested) which provides an excellent idealism, but those are general "rules." I am myself and I need to establish guidelines that better suite me personally. After all, no two princesses are alike. ;)
These are a rough draft, all things are subject to change, but I will try to commit to these until time suggests otherwise;
1. Live cute.
- This means to have a cute nature, be cute, look cute, live cute.
- Important because it helps to soften your nature and make yourself a more gentle and approachable individual.
2. Be intelligent.
- This means study what you do not know and be open to learning new things.
- Important because it teaches you how to listen and new things that could potential be of use to you as well as help you be a well rounded lady.
3. Be friendly.
- This means greet everyone with a smile and hold a pleasant disposition.
- Important because it teaches tolerance and more effective ways of handling upsetting situations.
4. Manners.
- This means say please and thank you, basic table manners, all that is etiquette.
- Important because it helps you to become a proper lady and manners are just good to have in general.
5. Live beautiful.
- This means to feel beautiful and to look beautiful in YOUR opinion.
- Important because it helps with confidence and self-image issues (if you have any) and it helps you to see the beauty in the world around you.
6. Speak intelligently.
- This means to know when to say things and when not to say things.
- Important because it teaches self discipline and conversational skills.
7. Choose carefully.
- This means to consider your options when presented with a choice and/or everyday living.
- Important because this helps you to think before you act.
8. Be respectful.
- This means to show respect for everyone even if they do not deserve it in your opinion.
- Important because it helps you to keep a mannered head and looking beautiful.
9. Keep an open mind.
- This means to not judge but to try and look at the perspective of said mind.
- Important because it opens up a whole new world of possibilities and can open your one's eyes to a whole new perspective.
10. Be conversational.
- This means to practice discussing many topics and learn how to use your words appropriately.
- Important because this helps you to think before you speak and it is always good to work on your conversational skills.
11. Accept criticism.
- This means to accept the views that others have of you without taking them personally.
- Important because it helps you to grow thick skin and confidence while being able to have an outside perspective of who you are to other people.
12. Be graceful.
- This means to be aware of your actions and surroundings and pursue them gracefully, such as a humming bird to a flower.
- Important because it helps to give you a noble presence and to earn the respect of individuals around you. Grace is a key factor in living the life of a princess and it goes along perfectly with everything else.
( More to come! )
* Disclaimer, Some of these guidelines could sound solely image based but they are NOT. There is a much deeper meaning behind them (reading the importance of each guideline gives a brief explanation) If you do not like them you do not have to follow them, these are my guidelines custom for me.
These are a rough draft, all things are subject to change, but I will try to commit to these until time suggests otherwise;
1. Live cute.
- This means to have a cute nature, be cute, look cute, live cute.
- Important because it helps to soften your nature and make yourself a more gentle and approachable individual.
2. Be intelligent.
- This means study what you do not know and be open to learning new things.
- Important because it teaches you how to listen and new things that could potential be of use to you as well as help you be a well rounded lady.
3. Be friendly.
- This means greet everyone with a smile and hold a pleasant disposition.
- Important because it teaches tolerance and more effective ways of handling upsetting situations.
4. Manners.
- This means say please and thank you, basic table manners, all that is etiquette.
- Important because it helps you to become a proper lady and manners are just good to have in general.
5. Live beautiful.
- This means to feel beautiful and to look beautiful in YOUR opinion.
- Important because it helps with confidence and self-image issues (if you have any) and it helps you to see the beauty in the world around you.
6. Speak intelligently.
- This means to know when to say things and when not to say things.
- Important because it teaches self discipline and conversational skills.
7. Choose carefully.
- This means to consider your options when presented with a choice and/or everyday living.
- Important because this helps you to think before you act.
8. Be respectful.
- This means to show respect for everyone even if they do not deserve it in your opinion.
- Important because it helps you to keep a mannered head and looking beautiful.
9. Keep an open mind.
- This means to not judge but to try and look at the perspective of said mind.
- Important because it opens up a whole new world of possibilities and can open your one's eyes to a whole new perspective.
10. Be conversational.
- This means to practice discussing many topics and learn how to use your words appropriately.
- Important because this helps you to think before you speak and it is always good to work on your conversational skills.
11. Accept criticism.
- This means to accept the views that others have of you without taking them personally.
- Important because it helps you to grow thick skin and confidence while being able to have an outside perspective of who you are to other people.
12. Be graceful.
- This means to be aware of your actions and surroundings and pursue them gracefully, such as a humming bird to a flower.
- Important because it helps to give you a noble presence and to earn the respect of individuals around you. Grace is a key factor in living the life of a princess and it goes along perfectly with everything else.
( More to come! )
* Disclaimer, Some of these guidelines could sound solely image based but they are NOT. There is a much deeper meaning behind them (reading the importance of each guideline gives a brief explanation) If you do not like them you do not have to follow them, these are my guidelines custom for me.
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